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Cold approaching solo
#16
(10-27-2019, 10:53 PM)D-503 Wrote: Hi everyone!

Moved abroad a couple weeks ago, where nobody I know is in the least bit interested in any type of chasing girls, not to mention something as extreme as daygame. Getting myself mentally ready for any type of approaches has become really really difficult, AA is going through the roof. Guess I'll just need to find a wingman.

Welcome!  Introduce yourself in the find a wingman forum and over time I'm sure you'll find others to meet up with!

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(10-29-2019, 08:29 AM)SteveJabba Wrote:
(10-27-2019, 10:53 PM)D-503 Wrote: Hi everyone!

Moved abroad a couple weeks ago, where nobody I know is in the least bit interested in any type of chasing girls, not to mention something as extreme as daygame. Getting myself mentally ready for any type of approaches has become really really difficult, AA is going through the roof. Guess I'll just need to find a wingman.

Welcome!  Introduce yourself in the find a wingman forum and over time I'm sure you'll find others to meet up with!

Cheers

Steve, where is the find a wingman forum? I can't find it. Thanks!
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#18
When I go out to bars its usually solo. 

There are other wings I know of I could go out with but I'm Steve's age now and this is generally a young man's game (very few 35+). Plus I don't wanna have to explain why I'm hanging out with a 20-something. 

I also find I'm in more control of what I wanna do and it makes me more sociable cos I'm "forced" to talk to people. This naturally builds my confidence which leads me to having a nicer time. I highly recommend travelling abroad solo to get into it.

But the key to giving me courage for solo nightgame is this: 

If I can do daygame (solo or with wings) I should be able to go up to a girl in a bar solo because daygame is definitely "weirder" according to society but its not weird to go up to a girl solo in a bar. She doesn't know if my mates are in the toilet or on their way in or went home early so she can't accuse me of being a loner. On the rare occasion I do get asked where my friends are, I just say they went home early but I didn't want to. But a big part of avoiding that question is just being a confident cool fun guy who doesn't need someone to hold his hand.

When I go out to daygame its usually with wings.

I wish I could do it solo but I'm still only just starting to get into daygame again after a long break. It will take time before I can just do it solo again.
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